What makes a real man come home,
what makes him always look forward to come home despite of his busy schedule. What makes him be happy to come home.
Marriages do not end to a wedding, marriages a continues work that requires work, big effort to achieve happy relationship, to have happy life together and build good memories in order to achieve the best memory to recall when we become old and if we are lucky enough to hold our old hand together, we have a lot of good memories to remember to make us smile. Remember that time will come that we will not be able to even take care of ourselves, and when the time comes that even my memory try to leave me, i would love to stay by your side even sometimes you don’t know me,,
We have to be strong to always remember who we are to each other, we have to know each other by heart so that i if loose my eye i can remember you through the beat of your heart, we have to know each other through the story of others so i can know that it is you and no one will be the same as you..
We have to know how good we are together and for not being together, we have to know how lucky we are since the day we found each other some years ago.. I know that i look different way back then,, that i look so much different as i am today,, however it is you that help me to found myself smiling again and from way back then until now,,, we can be together just the way we are…
Some points that we do to remember and that to make us smile:
- Cook the special food specially for you
- Buy small souvenir from the places that you have been
- Surprises are good even without occasion once in a while
- Take a vacation alone away from the whole family sometimes if possible.
- Be funny sometimes.
- Be simple yet elegant always.
- Be trustworthy
- Be patient
- Be creative and happy person
- Love ourselves
Those are some reasons that can a true love survive and stay in a marriage now a days, remember marriage needs team work, not one sided, marriages is a contract or deal bound by the law that can be destroy by any reason under the sun. Marriage is sacred to the people who believe in it. Marriage is not just a word but it is an agreement between two people thinking, deciding, feeling, dreaming to spend the rest of their life together through thick and thin, for poorer or richer and till do they part.
As we can see this time in our new era, life is a total disaster broken marriage, left and right, unsettled issues between husdand and wife that reach to the law office or worst they tend to end their life just to be away from each other. What is happening, what is going on? Why is this happening.. Hmmm…
There are no marriage without problems, trials, mishaps, scandal sometimes however do we really need this to end like we don’t really love each other. Do we really need to end up like bunch of soldiers in a battle field, no retreat no surrender. Or worst shot to kill, i mean literally. I have read other try to annul their marriages or divorce but some people do declare each other are missing in order to move on to their own private lives, some cases both party agreesand go on with their own separate life.
Sadly who will be affected at the end of this marriages battle,,children of course,,, if no children sometime the new other half got to adjust and be shocked absorber in someways believe it or not,, broken marriages is a traumatic scene that do leave a bad experience and memory to both side. For that, kids, teenagers who will read this article, be patient, finish your school, be good of what you want, listen to your parents, behave as normal civilized person, don’tbe so naive to experience all the joy of life and leave yourself for nothing.. Always keep some for yourself. As we do now a days always time check, check if you are now ready to face the consequence of your action.
learn to say thank you and im sorry from the heart, not just a fruit of your mouth that can uter anytime anywhere,, all im saying is it is matter of timing, full decision to face the result of our action..